Emotion Check-In
Step 1: Notice/Observe
Please recall a time when you were last experiencing a strong uncomfortable emotion. What physical sensation did you experience? ( i.e butterflies, heaviness, heat, etc)
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Step 2: Label the Emotion
What feeling (on the wheel) does this sensation fit with? (sensation such as butterflies could represent anxiety, heaviness can represent sadness, and heat may represent anger)
Step 3: Adopt/Allow
Can you accept this emotion?
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Step 4: Need
What need is the emotion alerting you to? Anxiety =reassurance or safety, Sadness= solace/comfort; and Anger=boundary needed/violation.
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Step 5: Action
What do you need to do to fulfill this need? Anxiety= I need reassurance/safety; Sadness=I need solace/comfort; and Anger=I need to assert myself and set a boundary.
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Adapted from Emotion Theory (Elliott ane colleagues, 2002)